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March : When we landed on earth

Here goes the month of March 2014, the second of the count-down towards our anniversary:

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Dear Adit,

March was the month when we landed on earth after all the rides. We felt a little dizzy what with all the travel, settling down, visiting various relatives for the customary feast for the newly-wed, inviting them back etc. Slowly reality kicked in and we both got back to our jobs and fell into the routine. It was an eccentric experience for me I would say. I had never been the homely girl and to be a responsible wife running a household required me to tone down some of my madness 😉 Cooking for you was an awesome experience but I soon got bored because you ate anything that was edible. Your no-special-preferences to food and accommodating taste buds made it difficult for me to find out whether I am doing well in the kitchen. As for self feedback, I kept comparing my dishes with my mom’s and as a result everything tasted bad. Slowly, I started figuring out what dishes you favor subtly (although you do it on the sub-conscious level) and started getting a hang of it.

As for running the household, I was constantly getting into trouble. I cut my finger n number of times, touched hot things and got my skin scalded, hurt myself a lot while sweeping the house. All because of my clumsiness. You would pout and rush to aid me whenever I lose my balance and chide me for not being more careful. Well, dear hubby, your wife may be the clumsy duckling but a few cuts/burns are bound to happen for people who newly enter the role of a homemaker. So stop that pouting okay? 🙄 I still remember that day when I had cut my arm on the grill gate and I was more worried about how you would take it than about the pain that came with the wound. I am thankful that in the coming months, you understood my clumsiness and I got my sense of balance to normal at the very least 😛

Then came the news that my SIL is pregnant. I started hunting for baby names but we both never agreed on one name to suggest to my bro. Anyway we had lot of time in hand till November, so never mind. However, I wondered how on earth we are gonna pick out a name for our kid when its time, given our varied tastes.

We had a lot of fun since we had all the time in the world together and none to question us. :mrgreen: I started enjoying the alone time with you since, during our courtship days it was so hard to get some ‘us’ time without having to sneak around to even attend a phone call from you. We had a lot of firsts in spite of our long relationship and got to know new things about each other or at least got reminded of the things that we had overlooked. For example, you got to know how much of a bitch I was when it comes to organizing and cleaning and I got to know how much of a kid you were and that you need someone to take care of you always 😛

We got our wedding photo albums and remember how shocked we were when we saw some couple in wedding costume towards the end of our wedding video? It was a mess-up and thank god it was a repairable one. I was so mad at the photographer, after all the poses that he made us do, this is what he gives us! Anyway, you helped me get over that and we had a good laugh over it. The visit to Trichy for my best friend’s wedding was hampered by the scorching heat which neither of us were able to bear. 😳 That’s when I realized how incompatible with the town we have become after living in Bangalore for a few years.

Anyway March was a grounding month after the high that February was.

And did I tell you? I love you 😉

Love,

Wifey

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Until later 🙂

4 Comments

  1. ak ™

    Are there anyone like you left on this God’s green earth (slowly turning barren, though that’s another story) ?

    Your husband seems to be the luckiest person. And come on, stop setting the bar too high. There aren’t much people out there like you. If there are, they obviously are married or engaged or are already with someone (better?).

    And I totally missed meeting the amazing person that you are.

    Oh, btw the blog looks awesome, I mean awesomely great. 🙂

    • Keirthana

      Wow, I didn’t think I deserved that big a compliment 🙂 Thanks a lot for your kind words! And about setting the bar high, what can I do? I am a die-hard romantic and the epitome of cheesy stuff when it comes to love 🙂

      Come on, there’d be people who are such romantics who are single and I am sure they are dreaming away about their future 😛

      Yeah, it’s too bad that you couldn’t make it to the indiblogger meet. But let’s catch up sometime, me and Soumya were already discussion we should meet up sometime apart from these meets.

      Thanks! I am glad that I stumbled on this layout and look too.

  2. K

    Wow! You had a pretty tight March 🙂 And cut the guy some slack, he’s worried about you hurting yourself 😀

    • Keirthana

      Ha ha! Yeah I know that he’s just concerned for me but then these things are bound to happen sometimes and him freaking out every time isn’t helping it right? 🙂 He’s a lot better now!

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